I am sad to say, Chris moved out on Friday, November 12th. We decided that it might be best for us to live a apart for awhile. We are still working on us, in fact our hopes are that it will be easier to figure things out, not living under the same roof. The day before while he was packing was so hard, and the day he moved was even harder. Chris drove me to his place before he had to go to work so I could see it and he should me around. Lets just say I have been crying a lot. I hope and pray that eventually things will work out. The last week and a half since we had decided he was moving out, we have been getting a long really well and I feel we are friends again. We are going to be dating and finding some common ground and hopefully Chris will move back home in a few months. We never dated before we married, so maybe this is us going backwards a bit. I don't want to give a lot of details as it is pretty much between Chris and I, but I will say this was a decision we both calmly made together and we are both determined to make things work. He lives just on the other side of town. The kids have taken it really well, they are actually pretty excited about dad having his own place and they can go on sleep over there. Chris is around lots and will be around lots. We don't want the kids to suffer in any way as much as we can control. Chris is taking me out for dinner tonite and a movie. I haven't been to the movie theatre in 4 years. crazy I know, but I have reasons ans excuses every time, but decided since Chris asked me out on a date, I figured no excuses, I need to go with him.
1st of three loads taken yesterday. He took another load today. He has lots of stuff. LOL!!
La Salvation
3 years ago